{"id":826,"date":"2015-07-19T18:15:09","date_gmt":"2015-07-19T18:15:09","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/gaminginsurrection.com\/TheStrip\/?p=826"},"modified":"2015-07-19T18:15:09","modified_gmt":"2015-07-19T18:15:09","slug":"strip-talk-22-no-fat-shaming-allowed-of-any-kind","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/gaminginsurrection.com\/TheStrip\/2015\/07\/19\/strip-talk-22-no-fat-shaming-allowed-of-any-kind\/","title":{"rendered":"Strip Talk #22: No fat-shaming allowed of any kind"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"Lyndsey-2013-cutout-online\"<\/a>Let’s be real for a moment: I am what you would call a fat girl. I’ve been fairly overweight for a large portion of my adult life. It’s nothing I don’t already know and it’s nothing that I haven’t tried to fix. That doesn’t seem to stop my surviving parent from attempting to fat shame me every time I call him out for being a jerkhole. That glimpse inside my hectic and drama-filled home life should let you know how I feel about others fat-shaming others. And, let’s get down to the nitty gritty about things: I can’t stand women downgrading and fat-shaming each other.<\/p>\n

Universally, I can’t stand women going against each other. Real talk: We don’t exactly have the best standing in the species, whether it’s from the original sin still being used against us (really, though? It’s been eons upon eons. Some folks really need to let things go), or that it’s still assumed that we’re dumb and can’t fend for ourselves when we clearly have intelligence, there’s still a stigma attached to being a woman. So, really, we need all the help we can get starting with our own side of the species stepping up to support each other. But what do we get? \u201cShe looks like a beached whale.\u201d \u201cShe shouldn’t be into that weird stuff like cosplaying.\u201d \u201cShe’s way too weird for any man to really get involved with her.\u201d<\/p>\n

Having heard the majority of that foolishness from my own side of things, and specifically from black women, you’d think I’d be used to it by now, but I’m not. It never ceases to amaze me how many people — especially black people — will throw stones and not get the full extent of being different. I was born different. The moment I came into the world, I was expected to utilize my intelligence, and leverage the fact that I could do whatever I wanted and be whatever I wanted. I was encouraged to have different interests and to not be so isolated and into my own self. So, when I developed an interest in other cultures besides my own (I do still have nationalistic black pride, by the way), it came as no shock to anyone who knew me well. I know better than to ever fat shame anyone, let alone other cosplayers and let alone women. It doesn’t matter if you’re a big girl like me or rail thin; do you and keep it moving.<\/p>\n

Lyndsey Hicks is editor-in-chief of Gaming Insurrection. She can be reached by email at gicomics@gaminginsurrection.com<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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